• "Not wanting something is as good as having it."
  • "Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want."
  • "Judge a goal by how well it changes your actions in the present moment."
  • "What do you want now, vs. what do you want most?"
  • "Ex-jobs, ex-girlfriends, ex-cities - work on having on ex-goals."
  • "Have systems, not goals."